Relationships are meant to become difficult at times. Having the skills to understand the nature of the conflicts that arise, and how best to resolve them takes training and understanding. Often the introduction of a neutral therapist to guide and practice more productive communication techniques can be extremely helpful.
Where conflicts become unresolvable often is managed better with the assistance of a therapist. Therapy can help a couple understand where the differences truly originated from, and help the couple develop a ‘shared narrative’ that both parties can agree on.
Brenda has specific expertise in separation and divorce. She offers couples a means of rebuilding the connection that they had lost or helping families to separate with dignity while addressing the loss of the relationship and the preservation of the family. If children are involved, she can guide families into the reality of two homes, addressing residency and co-parenting issues. Sharing information with children, navigating the divorce process and managing feelings of loss are best supported in therapy. This takes time and expertise.